Ever since the move to OurNakedSecrets.com I have been asked a lot of personal questions. It is human nature and I know that while my sex life is played out here in front of you and I try to let you into my bedroom and other parts of me as much as I can, there are and always have been very secret parts of my life for both my privacy ans security as well as those around me. While some people choose to reveal more there are others who choose to reveal less.
Most of my unrevealed part of my life though are really for those close to me. You will notice in the past that some men and women on my site never reveal their faces on the Free or Paid side of my site. I have to respect their privacy. My husband was much the same way. In fact, you will probably notice that “HubbyRebecca” no longer has a twitter handle or a Social Media handle. He has been trying to retire from “rebeccasoffice” for a while and is still helping in the transition, but I want him to just be able to move on to his next “gig”.
So I will try to answer as much as I can about some personal things. As they stand I am in the process of moving to a majority time living arrangement with my boyfriend. As a better explanation, about 70% of my wardrobe is at our new place as of this writing. I am also on great terms with my husband (that is still the legal term). What we choose to do and go with from here is between us. This is all legal and financial privacy dealings that he and I have to work out. Normal people don’t discuss that stuff with their friends and thus I will not discuss that here or anywhere publicly online. Yes I may say if a family member dies or if I went somewhere with someone, but that will be my choice to volunteer that information. As far as other people I am closely related to, I choose not to discuss.
As you can imagine, a change in living arrangements and relationships is hard for anyone to digest, so while I know you might all look at this as a nice little soap opera tale that might have some juiciness, I ask for you to just think about it in your mind and put yourself in my shoes and respect my and their privacy.
I know a lot of this fuzziness will lead to lots of speculation but just know that as of right now, everyone sees this as a happy and reasonable thing. There is no outward animosity and just a bunch of happy faces. Some might even say that they wish this happened years ago. I just don’t want to have people start looking for public records on my divorce or other things that will interrupt the lives of my family. That kind of stuff is all out there and public information already. Feelings have been felt, lawyers and family have been dealt with, etc. We just don’t need someone else coming in to reopen wounds that are healing.
As I explained in many previous blogs, newsletters, interviews, etc. my boyfriend now runs things. He has a different view of RebeccasOffice and will make his own changes along with me and my webmaster, Rob. I think he is doing a great job as a new director. People seemed to like yesterday’s update as well.
Now is where I ask for your help. You might see people who ask questions or speculate wrongly in other forums or social media. If you see that, point them here to this post. I hate repeating myself about this subject matter and it is annoying and too public! In fact I am no longer going to answer those questions. I would hope that all of you just point them this way. So thank you in advance for helping me out!
Love – R