@RebeccasOffice Discovers Ex’s Interracial MILF Training Plans and Interviews. Visit Timeline

I want to thank everyone for their response to my last update.  The outpouring of men who interacted with my ex-husband back in the 90s and shared thoughts and images with him  is amazing.  I want to say that I had no idea this was all happening behind my back.  Remember, my site did not start until 2003.  I can’t believe to the extent of my husband’s master plan.  Well I guess it worked for all your benefit.  He was so naughty and now he has to live with his success.

Training to ignore Hubby’s cock for Black Dildo

He basically did this behind my back for about 10 years (1998-2008).  I discovered some pretty crazy things.  I didn’t know he once referred to me as Marita.  Marita was the name of my best friend in business school that he had a crush on.  I also did not know about how he was such an interracial cuckold experience.  Well he did get all his wishes.  This is a really interesting bit of news for me.  I had no idea so many people already knew about me before my site ever existed.

I think this all truly ended around 2005 which is when I opened my first own blog and started writing there.  He was no longer needed to be my voice.  I was doing it already.  In the end he told me he was doing this one last interview before we split and I did it.  I had no idea it was for the Dark Cavern.

The Dark Cavern Interview (2013): https://darkcavern.com/classic/stories_and_confessions/darkcavern_interviews/interview39.php

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Training Rebecca Progress Report (Circa 1998): https://darkcavern.com/classic/stories_and_confessions/dark_desires/desires/marita.php

Potential Black Bull/Master Letter to Al (1/7/2000): https://darkcavern.com/classic/stories_and_confessions/dark_desires/desires/marita4.php

Husbands First Cuckolding Experience When a Friend Found Out (February 2000): https://darkcavern.com/classic/stories_and_confessions/dark_desires/desires/marita2.php

Black Bull Request and Al Blackmail (March 2000): https://darkcavern.com/classic/stories_and_confessions/dark_desires/desires/marita3.php

Frustrated, Al had Photoshopped Interracial Images Made (2001): https://darkcavern.com/classic/miscellaneous/fakin_it/dave/daves2.php

Slutwife Training Report (Circa 2002): https://darkcavern.com/classic/galleries/whitewifetraining/training.php

Pre-story in First Time (Dec. 2003): https://darkcavern.com/classic/stories_and_confessions/sweet_smell_of_success/success77.php

Announcement of my Going Black: https://darkcavern.com/classic/miscellaneous/blacklist-gallery/blacklist.php

First Time Interracial Story (Dec 20, 2003) : https://darkcavern.com/classic/stories_and_confessions/sweet_smell_of_success/success78.php

Video Promotion Circa 2005 (Promotion of my video with Christina Noir and Richard Mann found at bottom of page): https://darkcavern.com/classic/galleries/videogirls/video.php

My Husband Started an Ask A MILF Section where he answered Questions for me (Circa 2005). https://darkcavern.com/classic/resources_downloads/ask_a_milf/askamilf.php

Rebecca is DarkCavern’s White Ho of the Month (Circa 2008): https://darkcavern.com/classic/galleries/white_ho_of_the_month/whiteho92.php

Let me know if you have any questions.  I have tons myself and I hope those of you familiar with this site can help me understand some things!



@RebeccasOffice ‘s Cuckold Week Culminates in Her History of Cuckold’s Update

EDITOR’S NOTE – Please do not read this update if you believe in the pureness of Rebecca.  This update made us feel a little dirty in that it made us horny at the expense of a time when she was so innocent and taken advantage of. If the subject of cuckolding makes you ill, we understand and encourage you to just wait until the next update.


As many of you already know, Rebecca had a big week with her latest interview with the Cuckold Consultant (http://thecuckoldconsultant.com/category/exclusive-interviews/)  and then that was also compounded with her story on the Member Erotica Episode Chapter 31.   Well after that we decided to change a few things around especially due to the responses on her poll and provide a cuckold pictorial and call this CUCKOLD WEEK.

DO YOU LIKE OLD RAW FOOTAGE? THINGS YOU WEREN’T SUPPOSED TO SEE?  READ ON! One of the natural fetishes that RebeccasOffice.com caters to is that of cuckolding . It really isn’t a primary fetish of the site but after fifteen years we are ready to address the issue.  In fact this is official cuckold week around here.  We have already posted an interview as well as a member written story on her blog.  Now to understand how Rebecca became an adultress for cuckolds, you have to see where this all started. This means we are talking about what happened before Rebecca got to the internet and a website.  Fortunately Rebecca’s boyfriend found the motherload of pre-internet images (over 6,ooo) in an old file.  So before there were HD cameras and videos, Rebecca’s ex had a plan to satisfy his kinky habits.  He wanted to turn his demure beautiful wife into his own personal sex symbol.  He had a quick plan:  1) Find a weakness in her self-image, 2) Make her feel really sexy, 3) Change her Sexual Needs, 4) Build Trust, 5) Get her used to B&D and S&M, 6) Make her get used to it in public.  He convinced Rebecca that these images were all for him, but he secretly shared them online in AOL and Yahoo chat rooms without her knowing.  If you are lucky he traded these photos with you back in the 90’s.  If not, you have seen nothing until you have seen Rebecca’s size FF milk-engorged tits.

Does it make you feel dirty to see images you weren’t meant to see?  WARNING – These aren’t the high quality images you are used to seeing, but rather unstaged, undoctored, unaltered images (you will see some blurring of old markings he used to make on his photos).  Why?  This is what people looked like in the ‘90s.  Tons of husbands traded these kinds of photos without their wives knowing.  Eventually Rebecca found out and she limited who could see her photos and then they got better cameras and started this website. In the meantime, her ex put his plan together and executed it almost flawlessly.  She became the alluring adultress you know today and to hear him tell it, he knows dozens of men he shared photos with them that he still does today.  Were you one of them? CLICK HERE TO SEE HOW REBECCA BECAME AN ADULTRESS FOR CUCKOLDS.  

The Cuck Consultant Interview Part 3

Ever since I had an interview (1st interview) last year with “The Cuck Consultant”,  people have been asking lots of questions about my life and why I separated from my husband and why I enjoyed the lifestyle.  Let me first say that I did not view nor did my ex view our relationship as a cuckold type relationship.  I hated labels and we did not fit that mold.  Then my ex-husband responded and came in with his own interview (2nd interview) to provide his perspective.

The word CUCKOLD never really fit for us.  We were simply exhibitionistic swingers.   Swinging allowed us to not bother each other too much.  It allowed us to add some variety in life.  Honestly after everything we have been through in our life we are bonded more than anyone could ever imagine.  The interesting part is that the things which brought us into the relationship and enhanced our lives are things that neither of us really needs or wants every day

Ironically after the second interview I had some questions that I had for my husband.  We discussed and he told me what he still thought of me and our past and I told him too what it was that I was getting in my new relationship.  We agreed that we were both happier and getting something neither of us had provided each other in a long time.  The one thing we did also amazingly agree upon is that we could now finally be in that cuckold relationship that everyone had told us we were in although we would do it without being with each other.  He sent me a photo that I then sent to the Cuckold Consultant who has in a way become our relationship therapist.  I forwarded it to him and agreed to a 3rd interview that can be found on the Cuckold Consultant website.

A Very Special Interview – Meet Rebecca’s Ex (From our Cuck Consultant)

This forward is provided by DR. 36, THE CUCK CONSULTANT:

I am genuinely proud to be showcasing this special interview—and it’s not just because this is the 36th interview I’ve conducted 😉

No, rather it is because of its personal nature. You’re going to get a different look at the life of a famous internet hotwife, Rebecca from RebeccasOffice.com (whom I interviewed previously here) before she was ever a hotwife. You’re going to get to know things about her that go all the way back to when she was just a conservative college girl who was raised by very religious parents (the “sex is only for pro-creation” type) who also happened to fall on the intolerant side of racism. And you’re going to get to know her through the eyes of her “kinda cuckold” now ex-husband.

Why do I say kinda-cuckold? Because as you’ll see, he and Rebecca’s journey, which resembled a cuckold relationship, was more about her than it was him. It’s one of the most poignantly quintessential examples of compersion I’ve ever seen. To those on the outside, it could have been labeled a cuckold relationship, but in reality, it was a hotwife journey that was solely about Rebecca’s self-exploration and blossoming into a genuine hotwife, even when it meant their mutual decision to end their marriage.

Walk with me as we take a trip which starts down memory lane. On this trip we’ll explore the story of how a relationship between a young inhibited girl and a man who to this day doesn’t describe himself as a cuckold, morphed into one where she became a jet-setting bbc-loving, gangbanging, hotwife, MILF of the porn-world. Together they grew, individually and as a couple, she discovering and claiming who she really is, and he never wavering in his support of her. Our journey takes us to the present, where we find out the why they mutually decided to end their marriage—without regret.

Gentlemen (and ladies), I give you the ex-husband of Rebecca from Rebeccasoffice.com:


@RebeccasOffice: My 2014 @HotWifeBlog Interview

In case you never read my interview from the HotWifeBlog, I think it will add more insight into the cuckold relationship that I got myself into.  I never knew I was in one of these relationships until I left my husband last year.   I always thought that I was just a woman who enjoyed sex and was a swinger.  Perhaps if you are a swinger you are also in a cuckold relationship.  I loved the variety of sleeping with men other than my husband and became addicted to it such that we stopped sleeping together.  What do you guys think?  Is that a cuckold relationship in your mind?

Here is the link to the interview: CLICK HERE


@BBCWhorelist Interview of @RebeccasOffice

If you haven’t read my interview with Master X from the BBC Whorelist it gives you a glimpse as to who I am and how I became addicted to black cock.  I am very happy that they decided to include me amongst the initial girls.  I am girl #21 and I think they are up to about 200.  After you read mine, read about my girlfriends:  Alyse #3, Gabby #13, Holly #4, Janet #11, Dee #23, Lori #71 and Jackie #22. What you will note about most of these people are retired or lasted only a couple years.  I am now 14 years into this.

This is probably the first interview that I have ever done.  I hope it gives you some insight into my mindset at the time.


@RebeccasOffice Cuckold Interview With the @Cuck_Consultant

I recently did an interview with The Cuck Consultant for his website where I answered many of his questions on the topic.  Many of my members have said that they can relate to the stories and tales and advice that he provides on his website.  Please check out the interview and let me know what you think!

Were there any other questions you’d like to know about or hear?  Let us know what we missed.



Read the Big @RebeccasOffice Interview from @SpadesMagazine!

I have mentioned that there are some big changes going on personally and in my office and I have started talking more openly about them!    This interview started with some basic questions, but after a few drinks I really decided to open up as to what is going on in my life.  Please read on!  I hope you guys agree with my future plans!
I am strictly for BBC, especially in bare unprotected sex.”
Spades Magazine (Drew): Hi Rebecca. It’s so great to be doing with this interview with you. When I started this blog you were on my dream list of interviews, so this quite exciting. Tell us all about you.
Rebecca Dream: I have been so busy and always wanted to do this. Ever since I heard about the Queen of Spades title, I felt like that I should have that title too.  It has been a while since I have done an interview so it is probably good to update my QoS status with everyone.  I am now in my late 40s currently living in Southern California although I am originally from the great state of Ohio (Home of the Champion Cavaliers and soon to be Indians and Ohio State Buckeyes football). A lot of my basic information can be found on my Dreamnet website located at RebeccasOffice.com where I have been a webgirl since 2003. I would add a lot more here, but I think you will cover more below in the interview.

SM: How long have you been in the lifestyle?  What drew you to it?
RD: I have been officially in the interracial lover lifestyle since December 24, 2003, when I celebrated my birthday and Christmas Eve with a gentleman I had been conversing with online for almost 2 years. He was officially my first black man.  I never thought of it as a lifestyle.  It has been a natural progression over time.  I guess I never saw color, but the when I became a Dreamnet girl, I suddenly saw a channel for experiencing sexual fantasies that had always been deep down inside me and I had a husband who supported me.

SM: Have you always been attracted to Black men or is that something that developed later?

RD: I think like most women in the lifestyle, it is something I always had inside me.  I think that in order to be truly into the lifestyle, it is something that has to come naturally.  I consider myself a conservative rebel. I grew up in a strict academic household and never even really dated boys.  Grades came first.  My parents always told me that being a woman that I always had to try harder to get what I wanted and they instilled a strong work ethic within me When I first moved away to college, I didn’t date, but suddenly found myself dating men of ethnicity.  They were different.  Hispanic men, Asian men, a half black man and a couple of black men as well as some Caucasian men who were alternative. There weren’t tons of men.  I was still a good girl.  I was focused on academics as I had a full academic scholarship. I was attracted more to the style of these men and their interesting backgrounds.

SM: What drew you to Black men? Why do you like making love to Black men?

RD: I think that moving away from home I always knew I thought the town I grew up in was small and homogenous.  It was an upper middle class rural environment where I was never told what to do, but I know what people expected me to do.  Marry the boy next door, settle down, stay at home and raise a family.  I loved movies and I always wanted to travel and live in a big city.  I knew I wanted to work in New York City.  I think when on Wall St. I started seeing really smart men in beautiful suits and especially started to note my friends who were black.  They were gorgeous.  So why do I like making love to black men?  That is a harder question to answer than you think. The current group of black lovers that I have are gentle yet physical lovers who really know how to make love to a woman and make me feel beautiful. There are so many types of sex I could have and have had, but the emotional and expressive sexuality of the black man in general has been superior, so it is just not about physical and size.

SM: How did your first Black experience come about and did your taste of interracial passion live up to what you were hoping for?

RD: First of all, it has been so long that I don’t remember what my hopes were.  As I mentioned, I had been conversing with him for so long online first via chat rooms and then via email.  I was lucky.  I was just a horny bored working mom and my husband and I were watching some porn and he showed me Jackie of Hotwifehotel.com.  There was this guy she met at a hotel near ours and he was gorgeous.  I told my husband that if a guy like that would have me, I’d sleep with him. Well my husband sent a photo of me to Jackie and said that I wished I could meet that guy.   Well she sent him my email address and he responded!  After a while I sensed he thought we would never meet. I was really scared he would not like me.  I was a working mom and not some 20-something Los Angeles beach bunny. But along the way my husband and I started our Dreamnet site around July 2003 and I was starting to become more adventurous.  I still hadn’t said yes, but he and my husband conspired behind my back to arrange for him to show up at a hotel where we were attending a Night Before Christmas holiday party (and my birthday).  Silly thing but being a Christmas Eve baby, I always hate getting combo Christmas/Birthday presents.  My husband didn’t drop the bomb on me until after dinner.  I was so mad yet excited.  He told me to relax and I kept drinking champagne to calm my nerves.  Later that evening when he and my husband walked into the hotel room, my mind kind of went blank.  I have since watched the video which you can get on my site.  I think he had his finger in my vagina within 2 minutes of his walking in the door, and my mouth was around his cock within 5 minutes. Oh, I guess the one difference was that my husband and I had always talked about me being safe and using a condom. I got so carried away and I think was so loose that evening that we did it bare.  It felt so good and so intimate.  I loved it.  It was an amazing evening and I think I was in heaven all Christmas Day.  I can’t even tell you what my husband got me for Christmas.  My lover called me later that day and we arranged to meet alone 5 days later.  I was hooked.

SM: How has your IR sex life progressed since that 1st Black experience?  Any regular Black lovers?

RD: So I was a virgin until I met my husband.  Since that night in 2003 I have slept with 100+ other men with about 90% of them being black. A few months later I was on a trip in DC and got into a conversation with a black lawyer in our lobby and he invited me back to his room.  After we done, he left me money!  He thought I was a high priced escort.  Later in 2004 when I posted my pictures and videos on my site, I started getting requests for me with black men and I started getting invitations from people like the So Cal Mandingoes and The Crew in Northern California. We also belonged to a swinging group and then started getting invited to interracial swinging parties where men brought their white wives to nice homes in Los Angeles where single black men were waiting to please us.  I also started getting invites from professional porn stars and other interracial amateur women.  For about 7-8 years I would say I would go to partys maybe 3-4 times a month for black cock and started seeing some guys pretty regularly a couple times a week for booty calls. I had found lovers who wanted to take me on dates to strip clubs, hotel rendez-vous, or even come over and have sex in my bed or theirs.  Around 2011 a couple guys approached me and said they were tired of sharing me and not seeing me enough.  Also playing bare, they wanted to know if I would commit to them as we had developed a personal relationship.  I told them they needed to still perform for my site and they agreed as long as we all got tested regularly and that I make myself available to them.  From them I have developed one really special lover who I sleep with regularly and then 3 others I sleep with when they call and I am available (once a month each), and then there is the DFWKnight who occasionally comes for some California booty over Texas booty.  

SM: Who do you prefer to sleep with? Your husband or your Black lovers? Who do you sleep with more? Your Husband or your Black lovers?

RD: Very easy.  My black lovers.  I have not had sex with my husband since I developed my small group of lovers. So yes I have not had sex with a non-black man for over 4 years.  My husband does have his own girlfriend so in case you all think I’m being mean to my husband, do not worry, he is well taken care of.  He is not what most people consider a true cuckold. I know so people in the Queen of Spades lifestyle like the idea of a cuckold for a husband or boyfriend, but I guess I’m a little different.

SM: What’s your favorite way to pleasure BBC or be pleasured by them? Do you prefer one or groups?

RD: I just like pleasuring a black man.  Making love is special and I do love the emotions and intimacy that I share with my lovers.  I think that having had as many lovers as I do that my men like knowing that despite it all that they can have our special time alone for me to give them all of my love and attention.  My lovers are special to me and give me something that I know I am lucky to have.  Now if they want to go out and share me with others or party hard, that is fine too.  As long as they know that they had a good time with me, that works for me.  Sometimes my lover likes to take me out to a club or house party and we put on a little show for others to watch.  I love it when we show up and people just watch us and all you hear is us.

SM: Are you strictly for BBC or you date and sleep with other races?

RD: In the past I have slept with other races of course, but since I have created my harem of BBC, I don’t venture out of that group as things could get complicated.  So I guess you can say that I am strictly for BBC, especially in bare unprotected sex.

SM: What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?

RD: Oh my gosh, what haven’t I done?  I have stripped in a seedy club for a mostly black clientele.  I have gone to Vegas with my boyfriend and had a swinger booty call where 4 different couples showed up during the night, I have invited 2 black men to my house to live with me for the weekend, I went to Vegas unchaperoned and met with DFWKnight and lived for 3 days in a house where he and his friends fucked and filmed me all day and night.  Probably the kinkiest thing I ever did was that I have this young black lover I was pursuing at the time (and I still see). I was still new to the lifestyle and did not know how it worked.  He told me he wanted to go out to a nice holiday party, so he wore a suit and I wore a black long dress with heels and pearls.  After dinner he drove me to this run down apartment building.  On the way out this BBW lady is stumbling out and says to me, “Thank goodness reinforcements are here”.  When I walked in there were about 8-9 guys laying around half naked smoking pot and drinking. They all whistled and hollered when we walked in. The main guy hugged my date, grabbed and slapped my ass and told him, “Nice, put her in the bedroom.”  We went into the room where the bed was soiled and sheets and pillows were on the floor.  I asked about the party and he told me I was it.  Next thing you know 4 of the guys come up from behind me and have their hands all over me and I’m being pushed onto the bed. I was fucked in all my holes that night by all the guys and maybe more.  I felt like they all kept coming in me and on me.  At one point I was handcuffed to the bed while I had two cocks in my pussy and one in my mouth.  My date was a sweetheart and kept getting me water and asking if I was okay.  At the end of the night he carried me back to the car and took me back to his place.  I don’t remember how many loads of cum or how many men I took that night.  What was special though was that after the night, my lover took care of me like I was his prized possession.

SM: Are a size queen? What’s the biggest cock you have had? What is the perfect size cock for you?

RD: I don’t think I am, but some say I am.  I guess you must have enough and more importantly know how to push my emotional and physical buttons.  I guess that is what I love about the BBC lovers I have chosen.  They know how to push them.  Not all BBC men know how to do that.   You can have the physical but if there is no emotional chemistry, then I don’t care how beautiful your body is.  I don’t think there is a perfect size.  I am not the Goldilocks of Porn.  There is never too long or too fat, but there definitely is too short!  I guess if I can’t feel it, forget it.  Biggest cock?  Well that would have to be Richard Mann.  Wow, I was glad I did not see his cock before he stuck it in me.  I would have freaked out.  It felt so good.  He was the first guy to “bottom out” in me and when he came I felt like he flooded me.  I have to admit I am scared to see him again because it was like I was in a trance hypnotized by what it did to me,  I think I couldn’t walk for a couple days after.  We drove him home and I played with him in the back seat the whole time.  I couldn’t control myself.  I hope that some day he just suddenly sneaks up behind me and takes me one more time.

SM: What do you want to do most in the lifestyle that you haven’t done yet? Is that your biggest sexual fantasy? and if not, what is your biggest sexual fantasy?

RD: I’m almost there.  I think that I want to eventually move in with an incredible BBC that I will worship for the rest of my life.  He and I can satisfy each other on many different levels.  If he wants me all to himself, that is great.  If he wants to share me, that is good too.  Black men are very possessive and I like that.  Being taken care of by a strong beautiful man with an incredible body and sex drive is my ultimate goal.  Well that is my goal, but before that happens my biggest fantasy would be to do some iconic porn shoot scenes with my favorite stars. I’d love to do a real big porn shoot with at least 3 or four of my favorite black porn stars with them cumming deep inside me.  We can do it on camera but I want to continue off camera too.  I think my ultimate deal is I’d prefer to have sex with someone like Richard Mann and not have it be about porn.  I’d want to know that it is all about him just wanting me and that he chose me because I was the woman he wanted to fuck.  I do that with all my main lovers and that is why I think it works for me.  I have a life with them outside of sex which makes the sex better.

SM: Are you into anal?

RD: Although I always said I’d never do it, it does feel good.  The right man who knows how to treat a woman can make me cum and squirt.  I never go into sex thinking that I want to do it, but if the occasion motivates my lover they are always welcome to my ass.  I never request it.  My black lovers just take what they want knowing that I am there for their satisfaction.

SM: Swallow or spit?

RD: I love swallowing.  Most of my lovers are health nuts and eat a healthy diet of fruit so it tastes extremely sweet and not bitter.  I’ll even drink it out of a glass or even chill it in the fridge if they saved some for me when I wasn’t around.  As for spitting, I do like to spit on their cocks to lubricate them and I know some of them like me to hold it in my mouth when they kiss me and taste their cum as we kiss afterwards.  Others like to see it drool out of my mouth when I can’t take it all in one shot.  I am all about my man’s pleasure.

SM: Do you have a Queen of Spades tattoo? If not would you get one to show your love for BBC?


RD: As much as I like the icon, tattoos and piercings are not my thing and I think my lovers and fans are okay with that.  I have had people draw them on my body with a marker.  I did wear a temporary tattoo once at an interracial party I think.  This lifestyle is a secret thing for me.  I don’t need to advertise it.  For some reason I find that BBC always find me.  I must really send off a strong signal to black men for their Queen of Spades radar.  Jewelry might be a better option for me.

SM: Does any of your family or friends know about your involvement in the lifestyle or your love for BBC? If not how do you think they would react?

RD: Some do and some don’t.  My mother is a right wing Florida conservative retiree from the Midwest so you get the picture.  She might suspect but it is best to let her live her life out in peace and I live the QoS lifestyle in my spare time just like people become weekend warriors on the golf course or hunting, or bicycling or whatever.. A couple of friends know and they totally get it and some have tried it out with me. Some have even been on my website which has been fun to do.  They loved the comments from other men and their husbands want them to keep doing it.

SM: What turns you on? Turn offs? What do you look for in a guy?

RD: I love a clean, smart, respectful, stylish and sensual man who takes care of himself.  We all want our Prince Charming and I am no different.  I just want him to be a BBC and actually I prefer to have several BBC Prince Charmings.  Also it is important that the guy be committed to me.  Sex is good, but I am the kind of girl who if I like something, I want to be able to go back for more. Lots of people tell me they’ll fly from Europe and pay for me to go to Europe to have sex with them.  It is not about money.  I don’t want to have sex for money.  I want to have good sex all the time.  My main lovers all live within 30 miles of me.  Being able to have them at my disposal and to be at their disposal makes it ideal.  I’m not a negative person.  I don’t want to say what I don’t like.  It is easier to say what I do like.  People say that I am too nice both in the real world and in porn.  I remember once when swinging there was this white husband who had a penis half the side of my pinky.  Later, a couple of the other wives were snickering about it and said I was a trooper for sucking on it.  I guess when I focus on the positives and the lovers I have, I don’t have to concern myself with things I don’t like.  But obviously pushy, rude, dirty, disrespectful and negative people are those I avoid.

SM: Are you bisexual?

RD: Not really. I say that I am Bi-comfortable. I do it just for others.  In the swing lifestyle they call it Bi-curious.  I call it foreplay for swinging.  I’ll take a penis over a pussy every day of the week.

SM: In case they are reading this blog, do you have a celebrity crush? (Preferably a black man. It can be a movie star or porn star. Also you can name multiple choices if you can’t think of just one.)

RD: Oh so many!  Morris Chestnut!  Will Smith (did him already), Kevin Hart, Blair Underwood,  As for porn stars?  I got into this business watching Lexington Steele and Sean Michaels videos and stirring up my fantasies.  Now I want to try them all at least once. I need them to contact me as well as the new breed.  Are you listening Mandingo? Jason Brown? Flash Brown? Prince? Rob Piper? Michael Williams? Isiah Maxwell?  I want to be on your booty call list on camera and off camera.

SM: You also have your own website.  Have you always wanted to be a pornstar? How did you get involved in it?

RD: Yes, RebeccasOffice.com.  No, it’s all been an accident.  Early on, people used to steal my photos from AdultFriendFinder and pretend to be me  In fact people still do.  I hate that.  They will put scam ads on Backpages.com or whatever.  People will call them and get robbed.  So I decided that people should have to get a password to access my material. I also don’t like people irresponsibly giving access to this material to minors.  That is not cool.  We chose Dreamnet.com (now RadMediaxxx.com) to run our site because they were managed by 3 couples at the time with wives who were in the network.  I liked them because they are not too big and very personal.  They have been like family to us and very respectful.  I honestly thought I’d try it for a month or so, but 13 years later I still have fun at it.  I treat it like fun work.  I have updated every week and never missed an update.  My husband says I am the Cal Ripken of porn.  My members are that way too.  I have lived through deaths, divorces, etc with many members and hopefully I give them as much respect as they give me.  It is satisfying to come home and see such nice emails from my friends.

SM: How long have you been making your own movies?

RD: 13 years.  The site started with just photos and I always filmed my escapades.  I think around 2004 Dreamnet said they would support video and suddenly away we went!

SM: Where do you find the guys to film with for the site?

RD: I originally found them through swinger sites and referrals from webgirls in the industry.  I met guys at parties as I think I detailed earlier in this interview.  And then of course as I became know in the industry, guys like Richard Mann, Isiah and DFWKnight started hitting me up directly or through my representatives.  It is nice to work with professionals because a lot of the behind the scenes stuff is a lot easier.  There are no games, doubts or fears about what is going to happen and what motivations people have.  It is a lot safer.

SM: How do you want your porn career to progress? What do you have in store for the future?

RD: This isn’t a career.  It is a hobby or lifestyle.  I never had any dreams or desires for all of this.  It just happened and maybe that is why it has worked out so well.  Honestly I could have lived this lifestyle off camera as well and that is what will probably happen when people lose interest.  One of the things I have been toying about is just going ALL VIDEO.  I think people are tired of photo sites now and actually I just spent this whole past month with 4 consecutive video updates for the first time since the site started.  I’m trying to see if people enjoy that more and it seems to be getting good feedback.  I’ll never retire from the lifestyle completely.  I would probably just end up continue living it off-camera.  I have no desire to be a Grandma Interracial Star although I know many of you guys like that!  Heck I want to retire someplace tropical!  Maybe I will be like Nina Hartley and make guest appearances every now and then.

SM: Thanks for agreeing to this interview, Rebecca.  Where can someone keep up with you and get in contact with you?

RD: I can be written to at rebeccasoffice@gmail.com .  I’d love to hear people’s responses to this interview.  Additionally I’d like people to go to www.rebeccaoffice.com and subscribe to my email list.  Additionally I have a FREE blog at www.rebeccasoffice.net .  For those who don’t know me, before you write me, please make sure to read through my site and FAQs.  I suspect I will get lots of emails and I try to get to all of them in a timely manner, but I give priority to member emails and for those who write well thought out questions for things you can’t find on the site.  I hope to make more new friends and always love hearing the positive feedback.



My YNOT industry interview


This Office is More than Just a Job

(to see the entire interview with photos, please go to Rebecca’sYNOT Interview)
By Peter Berton

LOS ANGELES – For more than a decade, office worker Rebecca has been moonlighting in amateur porn via her own website, RebeccasOffice.com. Encouraged by a supportive husband, Rebecca diligently shoots new porn each and every week, without exception.

That’s what YNOT calls devotion to duty … although it may just be that Rebecca really enjoys her second job. We caught up with her on a coffee break to learn more.

YNOT.com: Do you actually work in a real-world office? If so, does anyone know about your other life?

Rebecca: I do work in an office. In fact many of my longtime members have noticed that I’m hard to reach at work during the day. It also is the reason why I don’t do online chat, because I found that my long work hours and my being on the West Coast was just too hard.

Early on, I ran into a colleague at a swinger party. His wife hit it off with my husband, and we eventually told them about my site. We have kept each other’s secret and have a good relationship at the office.

I dress pretty conservatively at work. In fact, we have some pretty hot female assistants in the office who’d look pretty good naked on the web.

Is your website a hobby, then?

I have a real life and consider this to be simply a hobby. Rebecca’s Office did not grow out of a professional aspiration of mine, but more as a way to escape the rigors of the everyday world and to explore my true female desires.

Why an office setting?

The office was originally a concept and theme I wanted to use to differentiate myself from others — you know, the naughty co-ed, the sexy librarian, etc. I also wanted it to be reflective of who I am and give people something to relate to in their everyday lives. Who doesn’t want to screw that beautiful secretary, the girl in the cube next door or that bitchy female [vice president] who thinks she’s better than you?

I really had no idea how long my office doors would be open; no idea that 10 1/2 years later I’d still be doing this. Kind of funny, but many people don’t stay in their real jobs that long.

One of the things I do like about the [office] concept is that I can bring myself into this hobby. I’ve always been a tireless worker; a bit of a nerd. I wasn’t going to do this halfway.

In the real world, I have a couple dozen people who rely on me at our company. I treat my fans just like my co-workers. I try to show up every day and take care of my responsibilities. In the real world, it is to put food on the table and money in their bank accounts. In this world, it is to put a smile on their face and a stiff rod in their pants.

Why did you start performing in porn online?

A bet, really. My husband and I got into swinging because I was just not feeling confident about my body after years of marriage. He told me I was beautiful, but that is what husbands are supposed to say, right?

We first put some photos up in a chat room, and guys really liked them and kept asking for more. Well, we took lots of photos for our swinger dating profile and then we started thinking that all these photos were being enjoyed, so why not put them somewhere else? The next thing you know, I’m asking around and I’m putting all my photos up on a password-protected site.

I’ve had great fans from the start, and all the great comments they send me each and every day has become addicting. I can’t stop! I mean, what woman doesn’t want to come home from work each day to tons of emails saying how beautiful or sexy [people] think I am?

In the everyday world, I don’t dress that provocatively. I don’t get catcalls from construction workers on break, but I do online. I love it. My fans — or should I say virtual employees? — are awesome.

Is it true you never take a vacation from Rebecca’s Office?

In more than 10 years of doing this, I have updated every single week. That’s right. I have an incredible work ethic. I’ve never taken a week off. That is what we do at Rebecca’s Office: a no vacation policy!

Seriously, I offer photo shoots of 30-50 photos as well as video clips, usually of me and one of my interracial lovers. At 2,500 photos a year for more than 10 years, that’s more than 25,000 photos.

My photos and videos are not professional nor are they brightly lit like real professionals [would do]. Ever try and have sex with hot lights shining on you? It is hard to relax.

Each of my sexual encounters is real. There is minimal staging. No acting at all. Over the last couple of years I have started making my videos available for mobile devices, as well.

Additionally, my provider, Dreamnet, makes the content of other Dreamnet girls available when you purchase a membership from me. So if you get tired of me one week, you can look at a redhead or a blonde.

Since this the social generation, I can easily be contact via Twitter, Facebook and my blog. Or you can just send me a good-old-fashioned email. All responses are 100-percent me.

Who shoots your content for you?

I have a girlfriend who is a photography hobbyist, and she does all my photography. My husband used to do it and occasionally still helps — we’ll take photos while on vacation, for example — but usually I will get together with my girlfriend and she takes them.

When it comes to actual sexual encounters, my husband used to [photograph those] exclusively, but I couldn’t relax with him around and he said it was too much for him to watch and film at the same time. Also, when working with other amateurs, many guys don’t want to be on camera.

Believe me, not everybody wants to be recognized on film, and some guys get freaked out when someone is circling the bed and taking photos. This is why many of my encounters are taken from a tripod and are lit in low light. Nobody can get real romantic when spotlights are on you.

You are watching me make love quietly, and what you are hearing are real emotions. Even when my girlfriend has done some video work, she said she has been tempted to join in because the action looks so good and hot.

Has your content evolved over the years?

Oh yes. When I started, video was very minimal. We eventually got into video, then had to get a better camera for both still and video shoots.

Also, I originally told my husband I would not do bareback or any kind of person-to-person sex on the site. Now I do gonzo scenes, interracial scenes and gangbangs. In most of the new things on my site, you can tell I’m doing it as part of my natural interaction with my boyfriends.

I’ve also evolved into social media with my online accounts and blog, which allows me to communicate with my members in another fashion on a daily basis.

How do you keep your customers paying?

I don’t know. I guess this is a relationship.

If you are mean to your friends or don’t talk to your friends, they disappear. Well, the same goes with my followers … er, employees. I try to check up on them. I don’t just post photos online and walk away. I respond personally to all emails, some tweets and some Facebook postings.

I’m a real person. I’ve even played Farmville on Facebook with some members.

In the real world of marketing, they say it is cheaper to acquire a loyal customer than a new customer. Once you are a member, I try to be responsive and proactive. Many members are surprised to get an email from me.

How has your on-screen life affected your marriage?

It has improved my marriage, believe it or not. To do what I do online requires trust and communication, so we talk all the time. I might say we have better communication than regular couples. He has said I am sexier in my attitude than ever before, yet I am still innocent in the same way.

I’d say the only thing that has evolved is that we rarely sleep with each other, just to keep it honest. He’s had a couple of girlfriends over the years, and I have had some pretty steady boyfriends These outside relationships are healthy and have formally communicated boundaries.

So in summary, the understanding of who we are as individuals and our communication with each other has improved immensely. Most of all, the respect for each other is beyond comprehension.